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[Thoughts] We are lost but it’s ok/還沒找到理想方向其實真的沒關係

“What are you going to do”, “What job are you going to find”, as a young graduate you must be familiar with those questions, and “I don’t know” are the most answered. We might be lost now but it’s ok, it’s ok for us to try every kind of possibility before we are too old to find out that we don’t love the thing we are doing.

“你現在在做什麼”,”你要找什麼工作”?做為一位大學剛畢業的新鮮人對這些問題一定不陌生而”不知道“大概是90%你會聽到的回答。我們可能還不確定自己的方向,但是沒關係。有一天當你有一定的歲數了,你才發現自己並不喜歡自己正在做的事,直到這天來臨之前 我們都還有的是時間 機會嘗試各種工作各種領域,各種自己有興趣的事物。

In the beginning, I felt quite lost also, but through the people I’ve met and stories I’ve heard, I stopped panicking and think: people with the lifestyle I adored worked hard for years to be in that position and they are years older than me, what am I rushing? It’s not like I will have my dream life overnight. I am just glad that I know I’m on my way to where my heart wants me to be. Also from a chat which inspired me “You don’t have to be anxious, if you want something bad enough, just like knee reaction, what you are doing now is the path towards where you want to be, your heart will lead you

最初我也很徬徨,感覺自己離自己想要的生活很遠,時間總是不夠用。不過在生活中所遇到的人,聽到的事讓我有了另一種想法:在我所嚮往的生活那些位置上的人,努力了好幾年才達到今天的成就,年紀也比我年長許多,我在急什麼?我不可能在一夜之間就擁有這些呀。我該慶幸的是我知道自己正在朝自己的目標前進著。一次與朋友聊天中他說過:你不用焦急,如果你迫切渴望某樣事物,就像膝反射一樣,你現在在做的其實就已經是在為它準備了


So, here are some tips which might help you out
分享幾個可以幫助你們更確定自己方向的小撇步

Inspired by Aggie Lal founder of Travel in her shoes. In her youtube video, she told us how she realized that she had to quit her job. Ok~wait~this is not the “I quit my job to travel” thing, but she said something which is quite helpful for people who are not sure if they should continue with their job or not.

No matter what you are doing now, look at your superiors who are at least 5 years ahead of you, see where they are now, and are they comfortable with their lives?
Then find people 10 years ahead of you, see how good they are, and are you jealous of their lives? Are they passionate about living? Do they have the lifestyle you adore and are they enjoying what they are doing? They are are the future version of you, if you don’t want to work for so many years to be in their position, I think it’s time for you to quit.

Youtube Link: Click

我很喜歡的一位部落客Aggie Lal分享過:
不論你現在在做什麼,看看領先你至少5年的前輩,他們現在的成就,他們滿意自己現在的生活嗎
再找領先自己10年以上的前輩,你嫉妒他們的生活嚮往他們的生活方式嗎?他們對自己的生活有熱情,喜歡自己在做的事嗎?他們就是未來的你,如果你不想要努力這麼多年換得他們現在的生活,那我想你是時候轉換跑道了。

Youtube 連結: 點我

Also from a conversation that inspired me a lot, there was this person who was in the field of technology for 7 years and also has a bachelor’s and master’s degree in the technology field (so that was a very~hard and long professional study).

But one day he asked himself if today was his last day, will he be happy for himself that he invented some new function on electronic devices which affected the whole world? But the price is, he spent all of his youth in the lab alone inventing those world-changing technologies.
No! So he dumped all he has learned and the high pay salary to do something he was passionate about- Music!
So are you still worried about your path? Just try everything and you will know! What is also important is to figure out what you don’t like.

有一位朋友已經在電子業7年了,大學及研究所也都是讀相關領域的。
有一天他問自己:如果今天是他生命的最後一天,他會在臨終時非常開心自己80%的時間自己關在實驗室面對冰冷的儀器發明出改變全人類的新科技嗎?
不會!所以他離開了高薪工作開始朝他所喜歡的音樂領域發展。你還在擔心自己找不到方向嗎?他花了7年的時間才發現自己不喜歡他學了這麼久的專業。每個領域都試試看,知道自己不喜歡什麼也是很重要的。

點我看:那位每年只工作半年的美國人
點我看:該去做那件你很想做的事嗎

As a rookie, it is quite important for us to build our experiences and what I heard often is “I don’t like what I am doing but i am going to keep staying because i want my profile to look good, I have to stay for a year” This is very true but from another perspective, time is more precious than experience. The earlier you see what you don’t like and try out in another field, the faster you’ll figure out your interest! As long as you know the purpose of the thing you are doing, go for it 😉

作為社會新鮮人常常聽到"我不喜歡這個工作但是為了履歷,再待幾年吧"。雖然累積經歷年資很實際也很重要,但是從另一個角度看,時間比你所想要累積的經驗更寶貴。越早認清自己不喜歡什麼,轉換到另一個跑道,你能越快的找到自己的興趣。只要清楚自己的目標就去做吧!

康永哥說過:  找不到真心喜歡的事物時,就去找真心討厭的事物,然後用盡全力 朝著反方向跑

知道自己喜歡什麼故然重要,知道自己討厭什麼也是


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